Good evening people! So this post today is touching on a subject that is a common thing in life to some, since I keep hearing about these things let’s talk about it. Lets get some understanding and peace.
Some are married , in a relationship or just friends with benefits, however you choose to live your life is your business and yours alone. However let’s talk about the life struggle here. When you are with someone should you struggle if the other person isn’t? Y’all together right? So why should one go through the struggle while the other is living the life? How are y’all bills holding up who pays what who pays more? Should there be a split if the other don’t make the same to split? Some people have different answers but hmmm I’m wondering if it’s the true answer or the answer you want people to be ok with.
This is a everyday question for everyone period. Life ain’t easy but I can tell you this much people show you who they are or how they feel about you when they don’t care or let you go though shit when you don’t have too. Meaning ain’t no man or woman gonna let their partner struggle when they aren’t . PERIOD !!! Ain’t no man or woman who is the primary breadwinner gonna let their partner take on more bills in the house than them knowing their partner don’t equal. PERIOD!! If they do then in my opinion they don’t give a shit how it hurts you. And that’s just an obvious visual of how they feel about you. At he end of the day we should def so appreciation to everyone who keeps the household flowing. You want balance in the household. A balanced household is a healthy household a happy household. Let’s all have that. But I want to hear some opinions from men and woman on their thoughts on this.